Here are some of the most common reasons why people have a hard time finding or keeping a love relationship: You’re too focused on work, your children, sports or your routines. This means that you may not be carving out enough time and energy in order to focus on searching for a love relationship, or […]
How Do I Attract a Woman Even When My Income is Low?
Dear Neil: Most women these days want rich men, since they won’t date a man that makes much less money than they do. I fear I will never be accepted by a woman. Single But Not By Choice Dear Single: It is true that a man with a good paying stable job is in higher […]
How Does a Grown Woman Meet a Man?
Dear Neil: Valentine’s Day just passed by. I didn’t think it would bother me that I’m not in a relationship, but it did. I spent the day with one of my grandchildren, but it did not erase my sadness. Last summer I went to a college reunion, and had many men flirting with me, but […]
Rules for Online Dating
I recently read research that says that 11 percent of adults that have been in a relationship for 10 years or less have met their current spouse or longterm romantic partner online. So perhaps it is time to review what an effective online/cell phone profile consists of, along with the do’s and don’ts of online […]
Are You Single by Nature? The Rise of Living Solo
It was not so long ago that a large number of people thought something was wrong with those who didn’t partner up and get married. Such people were thought of as selfish, tied to their mothers’ apron strings or grossly unappealing. Either way, they were thought of in negative terms, and were not viewed as […]
Dating Can be Challenging, Regardless of Your Age or Experience
Dear Neil: Could you explain how dating works? I am 29 years old, and don’t know how to tell a guy that I want him to invite me out on a date. I get routinely texted to hang out with a guy and his friends, but I don’t want to just hookup with guys anymore. […]
Betrayal May be Too Hard to Overcome
Dear Neil: I’ve been in an on-and-off again relationship with a man I have two children with. I love him dearly and I want to be with him. But he wants to leave in order to determine what he really wants from our relationship and how he feels about me. He’s having a hard time […]
Attracting a Woman Requires a Light-Hearted, Playful Spirit
Dear Neil: Almost universally you’ll hear women say they want a guy with a “good sense of humor.” What exactly does that mean? Am I supposed to be cracking jokes all day long? I tend to be on the serious side. What am I supposed to do? Not Understanding in Longmont, Colorado Dear Not Understanding: […]
Should I Marry a Man I’m Not Attracted To?
Dear Neil: My ex-boyfriend proposed to me recently. I have not given him an answer. I am not fully in love with him. He has great personality traits, but I do not feel physically attracted to him, and I don’t know what to do. I am afraid if I say yes, our marriage may not […]
41 and Never Dated – What Am I Doing Wrong?
Dear Neil: I am forty-one and have never dated or even been asked out on a date. I am a Christian, nice looking, successful and full of life and joy. My question is why have I not been asked out or even approached? To me, God has this glass box around me with a sign […]