Here are some of the most common reasons why people have a hard time finding or keeping a love relationship: You’re too focused on work, your children, sports or your routines. This means that you may not be carving out enough time and energy in order to focus on searching for a love relationship, or […]
How Do I Attract a Woman Even When My Income is Low?
Dear Neil: Most women these days want rich men, since they won’t date a man that makes much less money than they do. I fear I will never be accepted by a woman. Single But Not By Choice Dear Single: It is true that a man with a good paying stable job is in higher […]
Woman Asks: “Why Am I Still Single?”
Dear Neil: I live in a community where there are 5 men for every woman. Yet when a close friend of mine and myself open ourselves to a possible relationship with one of these men, things go wrong. My friend and I have open hearts, are strong women, we have substance, we both have professional […]
How Do I Create a Connection With a New Man?
Dear Neil: All guys end up rejecting me. Upon meeting with them, I try to be responsive by asking them questions like: ”Do you like television show ‘x’, what’s your favorite movie from when you were little, what activities do you like,” and so on. But they aren’t responsive to my questions. What can I […]
Where Do I Meet Someone for a New Romance?
Dear Neil: I am 52 and am open to date quality men, and most of the men around here are married. Any thoughts or ideas about where I can meet men? I do not want to post myself online. Alone in Cleveland Dear Neil: I’m in my early 60’s. It is difficult for a male, […]
How Do You Go From a First Date to Falling in Love?
You may know it’s not easy to meet someone new who romantically interests you, especially if you are over 40. You also may know that it is difficult to connect, bond, deepen a relationship and fall in love—even when you do find a promising romantic partner. So how do you go from a first date […]
Why Is It So Hard to Find a New Love? (Part 2)
Following is a continuation of the discussion of why people today have a hard time meeting, connecting, bonding and falling in love: Some men and women compare several potential partners against each other, and frequently wind up not being able to make up their minds. They tend to have commitment issues, and often have their […]
Why Is It So Hard to Find a New Love? (Part 1)
Following is a partial summary of why people today have a hard time meeting, connecting, bonding and falling in love: Think carefully. Out of a hundred single available potential partners in your age range, how many do you think you’ll be attracted to? Out of the ones you’re attracted to, how many of those do […]
How Does a Grown Woman Meet a Man?
Dear Neil: Valentine’s Day just passed by. I didn’t think it would bother me that I’m not in a relationship, but it did. I spent the day with one of my grandchildren, but it did not erase my sadness. Last summer I went to a college reunion, and had many men flirting with me, but […]
Rules for Online Dating
I recently read research that says that 11 percent of adults that have been in a relationship for 10 years or less have met their current spouse or longterm romantic partner online. So perhaps it is time to review what an effective online/cell phone profile consists of, along with the do’s and don’ts of online […]