Relationship Has Lost It’s Spark

Dear Neil:  I discovered a few months ago that my husband was having an emotional affair.  I had to discover everything—because he would not confess it until I asked him questions.  First it was just “friends,” until I found more evidence.  Then he admitted they had “feelings” for each other.  But because he never came […]

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Emotional Viagra (Part 2)

Note: This is the second of a two-part series. Click here for part one Let’s say it’s been years since you and your partner have talked meaningfully about what you liked, loved, admired, respected or found attractive about each other.  If that’s the case—or close to it—we can assume that, although the two of you […]

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Emotional Viagra (Part 1)

Note: This is the first of a two-part series. Click here for part two Dear Neil:  I am in my late 70’s and have been married 45 years.  My wife and I have raised three children, have helped raised four grandchildren, went bankrupt, grew a successful business, and paid off our house.  We have endured […]

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