How Do I Detach From The Man I Love?

Dear Neil:  I gave up a man I love, and still love deeply, for all the right reasons.  He was desperate for marriage—but didn’t love me.  I couldn’t see myself being happy in his family and with his kids.  But the pain of his loss is still profound a year on.   This is the first […]

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Reduce Your Attachment

in Order to Let Go of a Relationship Dear Neil:  I have recently been dumped by my partner of two years.   The worst thing seems to be that I am finding it very hard to let go. Can you recommend anything that will help? Lost In New Zealand Dear Neil:  My husband and I split […]

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